The Man of My Dreams

Diaries of a Single Girl #2

Many girls think they need a man to complete them and make them feel special. They think they need the love of a man to increase their value in worth. The truth is their right we do need a man. I don't have much experience with dating and men but I do have a lot of experience with the man were all looking for. The truth is the man of our dreams is not always the one we spend our time searching for. Oftentimes, he's right under our nose and we miss him over and over again. We go searching throughout the ends of the earth from Paris to Russia to the U.S. We suffer a dozen heartbreaks and go in a million different directions.

In the end we find ourselves lost, broken, hurt and bitter. Is this how love is supposed to feel? Is this the journey weren't supposed to take to find love? Absolutely not, oftentimes women miss the love of a man, because their compass is off. What is the right direction to seek for the man that will give us everything we need? Well the answer is in knowing who that man is because then everything will become clear. The identity of the man we seek is Jesus Christ. Yes,  deep down  we are all seeking after God first. We may desire a man as well,but our overall, overwhelming desire first is a desire for God.

He is the path and road that leads to the fulfillment of all our needs including our future spouse. A lot of people mix up their male priorities. They say I'll find the guy first then God, but this is not efficient. Our relationship with a guy can't even be whole without God being at the head. Our need and desires for affirmation, value, confidence and love is found in God.

For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities-- all things have been created through Him and for Him. 17He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together. Colossians 1:16-17

God holds the key to your worth and happiness. Put him first and everything you desire and long for will be fulfilled.
 

Be encouraged, for" Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him."1 Corinthians 2:9

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